Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not unto thine own understanding. KJV
I am 72 years old and have just lately started to understand the word surrender in a Biblical sense. Looking back through the years where I thought I was giving my problems to God and truly surrendering to His will, I was not. Far from it. I almost immediately took the problem or issue back and tried to resolve it myself. I call it my curse of independence.
I left home when I was sixteen years old quit school, got a job, and rented my own apartment. My Mother and I didn’t get along well. I was stubborn and resistant to being told what to do. I gave her a lot of heartache and headaches with my strong will. When I brought up the subject of moving out she willingly went along with my idea and signed papers emancipating me. I subsequently had two children and survived three divorces. I never asked my family for help.
I don’t know if my refusal to completely surrender has to do with my extreme independence or my stubbornness. Ironically my best ideas on how to solve a problem come right after I ask God to resolve the issue for me. Even more of a mystery, I never noticed this coincidence until recently. I can tell you this… it is extremely difficult for me to hold up a white flag and say, “God, do this for me. I can’t do it on my own.” I am trying, now that I am aware and it’s certainly a struggle.
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